AIKE

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WHAT LIGHTS ME UP?

- HELP AND CONNECT WITH COACHES

FROM ALL OVER THE WORLD TO HELP THEM HEAL AND CREATE MORE PEACE AND ABUNDANCE

"I started working in mental health care over 20 years ago, and since then, I’ve had the privilege of treating and coaching hundreds of people struggling with anxiety, depression, burnout, and emotional regulation challenges.

Along the way, I embarked on my own healing journey—one that deepened and accelerated a few years ago. But let me be honest:I did it the hard way.

I struggled through the 'dark night of the soul,' navigating a maze of different approaches, niches, and practices where I didn’t always feel at home. Progress was slow, and the results in my daily life didn’t come quickly.

But here’s the good news:you don’t have to do it the hard way.

After years of working with healers, shamans, and energy workers—and combining their wisdom with the most effective tools from my professional and personal experience—I’ve created a unique approach that delivers real, lasting results.

This isn’t just about healing; it’s about transformation. It’s about giving you the tools, insights, and support you need to overcome your challenges and create a life filled with clarity, balance, and joy.

You don’t have to struggle alone or figure it all out by yourself.

I’m here to guide you every step of the way.

Let’s work together to make your journey easier, faster, and more meaningful.

Your breakthrough is closer than you think."

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I'M AIKE,

And I went from a people pleasing survival mode kind of person..

to living in alignment.

"I’ll share a piece of my story with you today.

There’s a saying:‘There’s a thin line between love and hate.’I felt that deeply during the darkest point of a serious depressive period in my life.

I felt betrayed, yet at the same time, I didn’t care anymore. It was a slippery slope, and I saw no way out—other than to completely change my life and break free from what was suffocating me.

What I didn’t realize at the time was that I was clearing old family patterns from my timeline. It was the beginning of a profound transformation, but it came at a cost.

A painful divorce followed, and for years, I had to fight—not just for peace, but for my rights. I’ve never had to show so much perseverance for so long. I had to go further than I ever thought possible to defend myself.

To date, it has cost me €50,000 and countless sleepless nights.

Looking back on that period, the fact that I now sleep like a baby again is priceless.

"My whole life was turned upside down.

A new house, a new job, and people I thought were friends disappeared from my life.I would still invite them sometimes, but the invitations were never returned.

I felt unsupported and was shocked by the cowardice of those who stood by, watching, yet chose to say nothing about a situation that was clearly wrong. No support, no willingness to think along, just... crickets.

I was faced with ambiguous loss." The experience of unresolved grief—such as losing a parent, half the life you have with your children, relationships, friendships, a sense of identity, or a life that once was, without the finality of death.

It's the type of grieving that can sometimes be difficult to understand.

While I felt like I was swimming for survival, desperately trying to keep my head above water,

I realized how fragile life can be.

At that time, I couldn’t create anything new. My mind was too overwhelmed to take initiative or make changes.

All I could do was fall back on what I already knew.

But it was during this period that I truly learned toclear my head and regain my focus.I discovered the power of resilience and the importance of creating mental space, even in the midst of chaos.

I also had to come to terms with a profound truth: if I wanted to step into a greater light, I had to face the size of my shadow.

This realization sparked an inner journey. I began working full-time as a social therapist-practitioner while pursuing a Qi Gong education on the side. For over 20 years now, I’ve had the privilege of working in mental health care, and I’ve deepened my expertise with a postgraduate degree in systemic work.

And five years ago, I took a bold step to redesign my life. I went on a wild camping trip—alone.

For the first time, I drove nine hours from Holland to Austria, just me and my thoughts. It was a turning point.

That trip symbolized a new beginning, a reclaiming of my independence, and a deeper connection to myself and the world around me.

This journey—through the darkness and into the light—has shaped who I am today. It’s taught me the power of resilience, the importance of self-discovery, and the courage it takes to rebuild a life from the ground up.

I packet a tent, basic food like packs of crackers and Apple syrup, and I just started driving.I wanted to see as many waterfalls as possible. I picked a goal that was concrete, achievable but would present a challenge andthat would give me some distraction and new inspiration.

Despite the fact that I often doubted whether I continued to find life meaningful and whether it had become too heavy to bear and if people where not better off without me,I discovered my place in the whole.

Learn and allow myself to love myself, was the hardest part. I had to forgive myself for losing myself in pleasing others.

I later discovered that I had been in a trap inside my core beliefs, something I now recognize in clients and can neutralize and replace with a healing restorative image.

In the mountains of Austria my car's brakes became overheated. When smoke came out of my car and I 'coincidentally' drove past a garage, the owner said I was lucky.

My brakes could have just failed at the top of the mountain and then there would have been no stopping me and I could have just plunged into the ravine. Right then and there I realized at that moment I realized how much I love life.

I'm here for the whole ride and all the tricky bends I'll encounter along the way.

I realized myself during that tripthat I had complex trauma and I had to do the work to get to a better place in my life.

My complex trauma, like most people, germinated in my youth with a father who had been institutionalized for years due to paranoid schizophrenia and the rollercoaster of parentification that came with it.

One the side a stepfather with an alcoholic and anger issue, i witnessed how my mother was stuck in a relationship and that she was not being treated as you would expect in a loving relationship.

Her breaking free of that relationship literally didn't go without a fight.

I became an energetic match for that type of relationships and the whole pattern has repeated itself again for me. With a first serious boyfriend with very extensive physical abuse, after which I entered a relationship in which I thought I was safe, but I adjusted myself so much, that I lost myself.

I discovered that I still had to work through a pattern of religious trauma. One which also clearly appears in my family line, next to alcoholism, adultery and painful separations.

I went through the whole thing, just like my mom.

And I became aware of it and decided: 'that pattern has to stop here, with me'.

I started taking courses on the side. Did al types of courses like shamanic healing family constalations, meditation, Ayahuasca, truffels, and I discovered techniques that calmed my overstressed nervous system.

Tools that could neutralize images in my head and the associated feelings.

Step by step I learned that healing is made much more complicated than it has to be.

Our monkey minds love to make things complicated.

Many people give their power away to others. And live their lives through the eyes of others.

They have lost the connection with their source because their heads are too full of misery. Just like it was with me.

And when I had gone through all kinds of healing processes and learned different tools from Shamanism and from the psychosocial angle,I also saw that many people get stuck unnecessarily in their lives.

It touches me when people are depressed or have all kinds of fears. I know that there is a way out, but a lot op people cannot find it.

Not following the path they would like to follow and all kinds of fears have gotten in the way. This also started to move me more and more. To see that and not do anything about it..

I just know that things can be done differently. Sometimes it has to hurt so much to get you moving. But you can also start moving earlier and recognize the signals and symbols in your life that match your talents so that the reason why you came on earth can fully blossom.

I also learned to breathe better and became my own best coach. I was able to choose more helpful thoughts more quickly, which led to better feelings and different behavior. That then led to more wonderful events in my life.

After my shift and after I OVERCOME some big stuff, two years ago my LOVE walked into my life.

We had lived in the same village all our lives without knowing each other.

Our lives have run parallel in different areas the comparisons were mind-boggling.

We help each other heal and have begun to overcome our love- triggers. Together we have been able to heal things like fear of commitment and fear of abandonment.

I have learned to calm my nervous system, but to be able to do that with your partner is an superlative degree.

We've brought quite a bit of shit to light and are helping each other unpack the baggage we were still lugging around with us..

When we get the chance we go on a trip/ adventure. We went to Norway, Toscane Italy, Brugge, Ibiza, Germany and different weekend trips in Holland. My love supports me on every level and it just made me blossom. He supports me to do this and encourages me. I could go on and on, he is fantastic.

But at the same time I don't dependent on him. And that is a very nice way to work and live together with a loved one, share experiences and support and love each other.

A special side effect is that when I was able to let go of old pain, I automatically lost 20 pounds. Without a strict diet or particularly hard exercise.

From a energetic point of view, my body was also able to let go of things when I had energetically shifted.

There are also many studies to read about the power of this on a cellular level and that your DNA structure adapts after you heal on both the conscious and subconscious level.

My skin has started to look better and people now think I am younger than 5 years ago.

I have now been given the ideal home for myself, a identical house like my love, one minute walk to him, lets call it manifesting, magic or synchronicity :)

It all happened in perfect timing!

But i see now, i first had to come in alignment to shift my reality.

I know so many people who need help just like I did and I want to help as many as I can!

Making myself visible and no longer keeping myself small is spirituality on steroids :D

There is no way back, and I love it !

And i am ready to share my story and help as many people as possible for the rest of my life to OVERCOME their fears and blocks and heal from the inside out.